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Wednesday, April 28, 2004
shifu send mi tis article.. think its quite true.. beginning to understand more le..
Falling In Love
When you think of your past love, you may view it
as a failure. But when you find a new love, you
view the past as a teacher. In the game of love,
it doesn't really matter who won or who lost.
What is important is you know when to hold on
and when to let go! You know you really love
someone when you want him or her to be happy,
even if their happiness means that you're not
part of it. Everything happens for the best. If
the person you love doesn't love you back, don't
be afraid to love someone else again, for you'll
never know unless you give it a try. You'll
never love a person you love unless you risk for
love. Love strives in hurting. If you don't get
hurt, you don't learn how to love. Love doesn't
hurt all the time. Though the hurting is still
there to test you, to help you grow. Don't find
love, let love find you. That's why it's called
falling in love because you don't force yourself
to fall. You just fall. You cannot finish a book
without closing it's chapters. If you want to go
on, then you have to leave the past as you turn
the pages. Love is not destroyed by a single
failure or won by a single caress. It is a
lifetime venture in which we are always learning,
discovering and growing. The greatest irony of
love is letting go when you need to hold on and
holding on when you need to let go. We lose
someone we love only when we are destined to
find someone else who can love us even more than
we can love ourselves. On falling out of love,
take some time to heal and then get beckon the
horse. But don't ever make the same mistake of
riding the same one that threw you the first
time. To love is to risk rejection, to live is
to risk dying, to hope is to risk failure. But
risk must must be taken because the greatest
hazard in life is risk nothing! To reach for
another is to risk involvement, to expose your
feelings is to expose true self, to love is to
risk not to be loved in return. How to define
love: fall but do not stumble, be constant but
not too persistent, share and never be unfair,
understand and try not to demand, hurt but never
keep the pain. Love is like a knife. It can stab
the heart or it can carve wonderful images into
the soul that always last for a lifetime. Love is
supposed to be the most wonderful feeling. It
should inspire you and give you joy and
strength. But sometimes the things that give you
joy can also hurt you in the end. Loving people
means giving them the freedom who they choos e
to be and where they choose to be. For all the
heartaches and the tears, for gloomy days and
fruitless years, you should give thanks, for you
know, that there were the things that helped you
grow. Loving someone means giving him the
freedom to find his way, whether it leads
towards you or away from you. Love is a painful
risk to take but the risk must be taken no
matter how scary or painful, for only then
you'll experience the fullness of humanity and
that is love. Only love can hurt your heart,
fill you with desire and tear you apart. Only
love can make y ou cry and only love knows why.
If you're not ready to cry, if you're not ready
to take the risk, if you're not ready to feel
the pain, then you're not ready to fall in love.
There was a time in our lives when we became
afraid to fall in love 'coz every time we do, we
get hurt, then i figured that's why it's called
falling in love.
Falling In Love
When you think of your past love, you may view it
as a failure. But when you find a new love, you
view the past as a teacher. In the game of love,
it doesn't really matter who won or who lost.
What is important is you know when to hold on
and when to let go! You know you really love
someone when you want him or her to be happy,
even if their happiness means that you're not
part of it. Everything happens for the best. If
the person you love doesn't love you back, don't
be afraid to love someone else again, for you'll
never know unless you give it a try. You'll
never love a person you love unless you risk for
love. Love strives in hurting. If you don't get
hurt, you don't learn how to love. Love doesn't
hurt all the time. Though the hurting is still
there to test you, to help you grow. Don't find
love, let love find you. That's why it's called
falling in love because you don't force yourself
to fall. You just fall. You cannot finish a book
without closing it's chapters. If you want to go
on, then you have to leave the past as you turn
the pages. Love is not destroyed by a single
failure or won by a single caress. It is a
lifetime venture in which we are always learning,
discovering and growing. The greatest irony of
love is letting go when you need to hold on and
holding on when you need to let go. We lose
someone we love only when we are destined to
find someone else who can love us even more than
we can love ourselves. On falling out of love,
take some time to heal and then get beckon the
horse. But don't ever make the same mistake of
riding the same one that threw you the first
time. To love is to risk rejection, to live is
to risk dying, to hope is to risk failure. But
risk must must be taken because the greatest
hazard in life is risk nothing! To reach for
another is to risk involvement, to expose your
feelings is to expose true self, to love is to
risk not to be loved in return. How to define
love: fall but do not stumble, be constant but
not too persistent, share and never be unfair,
understand and try not to demand, hurt but never
keep the pain. Love is like a knife. It can stab
the heart or it can carve wonderful images into
the soul that always last for a lifetime. Love is
supposed to be the most wonderful feeling. It
should inspire you and give you joy and
strength. But sometimes the things that give you
joy can also hurt you in the end. Loving people
means giving them the freedom who they choos e
to be and where they choose to be. For all the
heartaches and the tears, for gloomy days and
fruitless years, you should give thanks, for you
know, that there were the things that helped you
grow. Loving someone means giving him the
freedom to find his way, whether it leads
towards you or away from you. Love is a painful
risk to take but the risk must be taken no
matter how scary or painful, for only then
you'll experience the fullness of humanity and
that is love. Only love can hurt your heart,
fill you with desire and tear you apart. Only
love can make y ou cry and only love knows why.
If you're not ready to cry, if you're not ready
to take the risk, if you're not ready to feel
the pain, then you're not ready to fall in love.
There was a time in our lives when we became
afraid to fall in love 'coz every time we do, we
get hurt, then i figured that's why it's called
falling in love.
written by min @ 4/28/2004 01:41:00 PM
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