Tuesday, February 17, 2004
read another chapter from "Men are from Mars. Women are from Venus." realise more mistake mi made.... haiz... the more mi read the more depress mi are.... mi really a terrible girlfriend.... why am mi so terrible???
suddenly have a thought... what is the most important thing in maintaining a relationship? Love? Understanding?
the books says that love is not the most important thing in a relationship. You may love a person but you may not understand him.. that means it creates frustrastion in you... your resentment builds up.. conflicts arise.. tension increases.. its going to affect your relationship alot... if you do not solve this... overtime the relationship will not work out.... on the other hand.. if you have understanding of that person you will be able to handle him.. it seems to me that this is a technique.. if you understand gals.. you might not have love her a lot.. but you will know the right way to handle her... isn't that sad? would you rather have a person who loves you or a person who knows how to handle you? mi prefer the first.. even though mi may end up with a broken heart.........
suddenly have a thought... what is the most important thing in maintaining a relationship? Love? Understanding?
the books says that love is not the most important thing in a relationship. You may love a person but you may not understand him.. that means it creates frustrastion in you... your resentment builds up.. conflicts arise.. tension increases.. its going to affect your relationship alot... if you do not solve this... overtime the relationship will not work out.... on the other hand.. if you have understanding of that person you will be able to handle him.. it seems to me that this is a technique.. if you understand gals.. you might not have love her a lot.. but you will know the right way to handle her... isn't that sad? would you rather have a person who loves you or a person who knows how to handle you? mi prefer the first.. even though mi may end up with a broken heart.........
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written by min @ 2/17/2004 04:38:00 PM